Evelyn: 52 Weeks

New this week:
First Birthday! 

Getting Ready for Christmas!

Great hair day

Just a little flashback: 

Baby Led Weaning

The other day I touched on Baby Led Weaning. I wanted to elaborate a little more on that. Many months ago we started our journey with baby led weaning (BLW) with asparagus.

Pretty much the basis of BLW is to let your child feed herself. They decided how much to eat, and when they are done eating. Part of the reason we went this way is that it is supposed to help grow kids with better eating habits, they like a wide variety of foods. They learn to feed themselves, they learn to stop when they are full, and they (supposedly) will be more apt to try new foods.

We rarely ever spoon fed Evelyn, for a short while we would feed her when she was eating pouched food, but now we just hand her the pouch and hope for the best. She is now pretty good with a spoon and shovels her yogurt into her mouth with only a little mess. Quite an improvement from when we first handed her the spoon and the bowl of yogurt.

much less mess, although the bowl and spoon have both been thrown to the dogs

 I also liked the idea because we didn't have to buy baby food (but we still keeps some pouches on hand). You feed the baby what you eat. Early on this was hard, how are you going to feed a baby a hamburger, or chicken noodle soup? Things have gotten easier with time, also our dinner choices are a little better, I think, because I take into mind the things that Evey can't  or shouldn't eat. The other day we had pizza, Evey had pizza too, if we have spaghetti, so does she. Sometimes we will still make poor meal choices, or we will eat something that she has no interest in, and those nights se will get a pouch of pureed food.

There is tons of information on BLW, and I am not an expert, If you are interested I strongly recommend the book Baby Led Weaning . There are also several facebook pages and websites out there with more information, and precautions you should take when feeding your baby solid food.
So far I am really pleased with her progress, even before she had teeth she has been eating things like chicken and veggies. She loves fruit, and recently discovered kiwi. She's not really a picky eater, one of her favorite meats is fish, of all shapes and sizes, halibut, cod, shrimp, yummy! I can't wait to get her out to California where we will have so much more food to choose from.

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Ikea ANTILOP high-chair review

When I was researching introducing food to Evelyn I was drawn to Baby Led Weaning, which is more or less letting your baby feed herself. Well it can be very messy. Somewhere in the tons of information I was reading I saw someone recommend the Ikea ANTILOP highchair because it's very easy to clean, there is no fabric besides the buckles, it's all plastic and wipes down easy. And if necessary you can just put the whole thing into the shower or outside and hose it off! 

I was so sad that we don't have an Ikea nearby, and at the time they didn't have it available for online purchase (they do now!) So I sent my mom to Ikea, they were planning on driving up to visit us over the summer and I saw that as my opportunity to have the highchair I wanted delivered to my door! 

Ikea ANTILOP

I love that it's very simple, and very light weight. Ours gets a deep clean in the shower where I scrub every nook and cranny about once a week or so. I have never taken it apart but it looks like it should break down pretty easily. I should mention, although there are no buckles and straps in the one pictured, there are buckles on the one I have, you should make sure that yours has buckles because Evey has tried to climb out many times. I highly recommend this highchair, if you are looking for something simple and inexpensive that is 100% washable this is a great chair.

I was not compensated in any way for this review, this is entirely my own opinion. 

2014 is just around the corner!

Well the new year is upon us. For lots of people that means making new goals and hoping to find the strength to follow through. 

My one real big goal is to get out of credit card debt. We don't have a lot of debt, but we have enough. We could easily pay it all off with our savings, but that is all in an account where we get punished for removing money. I don't carry the card with me anymore so now I just need to forget the CC number (dang online shopping!) This may require me to obtain additional income, so I may be looking for a job with very flexible hours when we get to California. 

As a family we also have the typical personal fitness goal, but with my newest endeavor with Shakeology and Focus T25 that is coming along, slowly but surely. I am about 8 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight so that puts me about 28 pounds from my ultimate goal weight. But not even thinking about numbers, this weekend I wore jeans that I haven't fit into since before Evelyn was born. Huge accomplishment in my book!

So Cal (maybe even Camp Pendleton?)
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I would really like to do some traveling, we have plans to visit family and friends on the east coast in April, before our move to California. But I would also like to do some traveling in California, besides the weekend road trips I am sure we will have lots of. I am thinking Yosemite, and maybe some camping, Just some fun outdoors. I've only ever been to Cali a handful of times, and besides visiting 29 Palms, when Paul and I were dating, they were all when I was much younger and I don't really remember. 

American Village, Okinawa, Japan 2010

I would like to work on honing my Photography skills. I love taking pictures of scenery, and wildlife. I love capturing the feeling of a place. I love to look at my pictures and have them make me feel something. I want to get to the point where my pictures make other people feel something too. 

I would like to grow my blog. I am actually participating in a facebook group thing that is aimed at growing your blog in 2014. I hope I can keep up with it better than I kept up with everything else this year. 

this is the only picture I can find of my entertainment center, and it only shows about 1/3 of it, the pic is from Okinawa and we were getting ready to move so the house is a disaster, and I am a terrible housekeeper. 

And finally I want to minimize my belongings.

When we got to Okinawa, we were still sort of newlyweds, and we had all this money saved up for furniture since we were living off futons and Ikea stuff before we moved. When we bought stuff we went big, real big. At the time we were thinking of the investment, having a nice piece of furniture that will stand the test of time. Well I still think our stuff is beautiful, but it's HUGE. Our entertainment center is 5 giant pieces that fit together, and the three main pieces are nearly impossible to move. For someone who likes to re-arrange every few months, this makes my life difficult.

So my goal is to get to California and have the movers unpack just about all the furniture pieces into the garage, and then have a big huge yard sale and sell all our crap to someone who really wants it. 

Do you have any big goals for 2014? 

Share them with me, or link up your 2014 goals below! 

Not a lot of pictures in this post so here is one of the dogs, this is in Okinawa on the beach by our house. When I told the dogs we were moving to the beach again they were so excited they almost exploded. 

They love the beach.

Happy Holidays

Christmas 2013 

The Legend of Ranger: The Reindeer who Couldn't Fly

Not to long ago I was asked to review Retired Commanding General Alan Salisbury's book The Legend of Ranger: The Reindeer Who Couldn't Fly. I was very excited when the book arrived in my mail box a few days ago and I promptly got to reading to to Evelyn each night. It took us about 4 nights to finish, but could easily be read in 1-2 nights depending on the reading level and attention span of the reader. Evelyn enjoys being read too, and I think she really liked this story, it gives you a behind the scenes peek at Santa's workshop from the Ranger, one of the reindeer. 

We really enjoyed reading the adorable story about Ranger, who happens to be Rudolph's brother, and his journey to try to learn to fly. Ranger is struggling with the fact that he doesn't know how to fly, and is trying so hard to learn the secret to flight. One I night a couple other reindeer fall ill and it's up to Ranger to secure the medicine for them as Christmas is fast approaching. Will Ranger save the day? Well I don't want to ruin the needing for you!

It's a very cute story and one I am sure we will read over and over again. 

You can get your own copy of the book from Amazon (but hurry if you want a copy because it looks like there are only a few left!)

I was provided with a copy of the book, free of charge for my review, all thoughts on the story are my own. 

Evelyn: 51 Weeks

fever 

New this week: 

First time being sick :(
MEPS Christmas Party

two sickies 

sick baby naps on mommy

Renji Cleaning up boogies

MEPS christmas party 

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Saving money with home hair cuts (or why sundays is my least favorite day)

Wahl Clippers

I usually don't tell people I cut my husbands hair. If I happen to give him a bad cut I don't want people to know it was me. And after 6 years of cutting his hair, it happens every now and then, he gets a not so great cut.
When we got married he was spending almost $20 a week to get his hair cut. Being in the Marines, weekly haircuts are just a fact of life.
Shortly after we got married I got a pair of clippers, they came with an instructional video which I watched over and over again and then I started to cut his hair. I don't even want to think about how bad they were in the beginning, because even now sometimes they are less than stellar, that first year must have been rough on him. But after all this time I have never done such a bad job that we had to shave it. And I think I have the fade down pretty good.
But I still hate it, and I dream about just sending him to the barber on sundays so I don't have to do it. I secretly don't mention that it's haircut day in hopes he will forget, and just have to get it cut at the barber some time monday. But almost every sunday, at about 1 pm, I cut his hair. Taking into account deployments, other time apart and times that I did just send him to the barber, we have saved about $4,000 with me just cutting his hair. We take really good care of our clippers, and every few years I buy a nice new pair (that was before I learned you could get replacement blades) the last set I bought are really super nice and I hope will last us for a very long time.
So if you husband trusts you enough to let you try to cut his hair, I highly recommend it. Get a good video, check out YouTube, invest in a nice pair of clippers and have fun!
It's just hair! It'll grow back!

OkiNinjaKitty- Life in Okinawa, after the military

Today I would like to introduce you to Kathryn, a blogger/vlogger located in Okinawa, Japan. Kathryn creates informational posts and videos about Okinawa, everything from exciting things to do, places to eat, and even basic japanese. Kathryn has been living in Okinawa for 7 years and is full of wonderful information and great ideas for those living in, moving to, or just visiting Okinawa. She was able to take some time to answer questions for anyone curious about the girl behind the camera, as well as anyone wondering about long term living in Okinawa, outside of being active duty military.  

• What's the number one thing you miss from America? 

I honestly can't say that there is anything that I miss about or from America. Nowadays with the iPhone and 3G/4G networks (something that didn't exist when I first got here) I can talk, chat, send pictures to and even video conference with family at the drop of a dime. In fact some of my family members are closer to me now then they were when I was living only a few states away. I can't say that I miss anything material either. You can get anything you need right here in Japan if you know where to look.

• Who initiated the idea of you staying on island after your husband's enlistment? Was it a hard sell for the other person? 

Neither of us had the idea of staying in Okinawa before the other. It was an idea that we came to collectively through a lot of discussions about what we wanted to do next in our lives. To be completely honest, I think that if you have to "sell" it to the other person you're already starting off on the wrong foot because (as we will uncover throughout the rest of these questions) it's a difficult journey. In my opinion both parties need an equal drive to make it work.

• What were some of the main reasons you wanted to stay, and what were some of your husbands reasons? 

The both of us really liked the way our lives were going and liked what the future could look like if we stayed here. How safe the island is was a huge plus.

• What if any reasons were there for you to leave Okinawa? 

None.

• Do you ever miss being an active duty spouse? 

No. I never liked being an active duty spouse or living a military lifestyle.

• How long do you plan on staying in Okinawa?

We don't have any plans to leave Okinawa any time in the foreseeable future.

• How do you handle medical issues? Are you seen on base or do you go out in town? If you go out in town is it really expensive like it is if you were to seek medical care here in the states without insurance? 

Great (and very important) question! I like to handle all of my medical issues out in town. There is a laundry list of hospitals, clinics and specialists on island who can help you and your family with any medical needs you may have. There are also hospitals and clinics that accommodate English speakers so being proficient in Japanese isn't necessary. No. Even if you are uninsured you're not going to see anything near the outrageous prices you will find in the US. Here's an example. A few years before leaving the US I had this skin issue pop up on my arm and cause some problems. I went to the doctor, had to get a referral to a dermatologist and then from there had to try 2 or 3 different prescriptions to try and make the issue go away. The price tag with my insurance coverage was around $300USD not including the appointment to get the referral. Years later the same skin thing popped up again only this time making an appearance on my face. . . YAY. . . so I headed to the local dermatologist one morning during "walk in" hours. He recognized right away what the problem was, handed me a prescription and I was out of there in 10 minutes. Total price tag uninsured $60USD.

• What forms of insurance are available to someone who may be interested in staying in or moving to Okinawa? 

The type of insurance you get depends on the type of job you have. If you find employment which gives you a Japanese work visa then you will be eligible for Japan's national health insurance. This type of health insurance is based on your annual income making it affordable and will ensure you can be taken care of without having to worry.
(NOTE: There are also other types of health insurance available in Japan but that's a story for another day.)
If you are working under SOFA Status you are likely going to end up with some form of international health insurance. International health insurance has it's ups and downs. The biggest negative to international health insurance is that in most cases you have to pay up front and then file your claim getting the refund later.

• How hard was it to find employment to remain on the island? One of you has to have a job with SOFA correct? 

First I want to answer the second part of your question. No, it is not correct that either you or your spouse requires a job with SOFA Status in order to remain on Okinawa (or more accurately in Japan). This is just one of your many options. Another one of your options is to go after a job that will give you and your family Japanese work visas. There are many ways that a Japanese work visa can be obtained which can all be researched through Japanese immigrations and your local embassy. The most common is to find an employer who is willing to hire you and sponsor your visa. You can also obtain a visa by opening a business or even based on your annual income. Again, you can research all of this information and find out what works best for you.
Now, how hard was it to find employment? It was a challenge . . . . . some might say difficult but I want to stress that it is not impossible. If you decide to go the route of staying in/moving to Japan (or any other country for that matter) you need to have a solid understanding of the fact that you aren't going to just be handed a job. There are a lot of things that need to fall into place. You will need to be experienced and good at what you do, have a solid education and of course be what they are looking for. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. If you press on you'll be fine.

• How hard was it finding housing that is not for active duty? Briefly what is the process? 

Finding a place to live what the most difficult challenge that we faced throughout the entire "settling in Okinawa" process. We had to jump through a lot of burning hoops and even then we ran into problem after problem. Here in Okinawa there is not a solid process for finding housing like there is in other parts of Japan. With so many military members coming in and out all the time Americans are a huge flight risk so you're at the mercy of any agency that is willing to work with you. In many cases it really isn't even the agency but more what the landlord is or isn't willing to accept.

• What are some reliable housing agencies for non-military 

Reliable Housing Agencies - Via OkiNinjaKitty blog

• Generally speaking is Okinawa cheaper than the United States?

Is Okinawa Cheeper than the United States - Via OkiNinjaKitty Blog

• How fluent are you in Japanese? Can you read it well? 

I know enough Japanese to get by in certain situations. I can also speak enough Uchinaguchi (the native language of Okinawa) to be polite with the non-Japanese/non-English speaking people I have met over the years. As far as reading goes I can read enough to order off a menu, go grocery shopping to find a shop that I might be looking for.

• How did you learn Japanese? 

All the Japanese that I know I learned through practical application. For example everyone eats right? So I learned all the Japanese phrases and such that would be useful in a restaurant setting. This was a great place to start because I mean how often do you find yourself in a restaurant? All the time right! So you use that Japanese a lot, get the pronunciation down and move on to the next life challenge. For me it was the motorcycle shop. My bike needed a new tire so I learned all the Japanese phrases that I might need to communicate that to them and BAM now I can talk to mechanics with ease. The more situations I encounter. . . the more Japanese I learn. What other challenges do you face often, as an American living in a foreign country? Finding friends and meeting people has proven to be a huge challenge, not necessarily because I am living in a foreign country but, because I am living in Okinawa. This has become exceedingly more difficult as the years progress. The longer you're here, the stranger position you end up in. Regardless who you meet everyone thinks you're new here and that can be unpleasant after a while.

Friendship challenges when in Japan long term - Via OkiNinjaKitty Blog

• You have the YouTube Channel OkiNinjaKitty, how long have you been making videos? 

 I have had the OkiNinjaKitty Channel since early 2011.

OkiNinjaKitty

• What made you start making videos?

That fact that I love filming as a hobby was a huge help. It wasn't like I had to learn to like carrying around a camera. Then when I really started to sink my teeth into YouTube I started noticing that some of the videos that I was really enjoying were actually just home movies other people were posting but rather then making them personal it was as though they were telling the viewer useful information or even just fun tidbits about life. I found myself learning about everyday life in Osaka, Shizuoka, Tokyo, Hokkaido. . . . very cool. . . but very disappointing that none of these videos were coming out of Okinawa. I remember thinking about how cool it would be for those coming to Okinawa to have an idea of what was around even before they got here. A few weeks later I started filming and posting videos on the OkiNinjaKitty Channel.

• What are the questions you get asked most often?

I get a lot of questions. Most of which revolve around either living here without depending on the base (where to buy produce, where to buy clothes). "What should I pack for a two year tour in Okinawa?" is another one of the questions that I receive a lot. I also get a lot of questions about the relationship between the US Military and the people of Okinawa. These questions usually come after protests and big news stories. People want to understand both sides of the situation and I've built an environment with the OkiNinjaKitty Channel where people are comfortable to ask those types of questions without harsh judgement (something that doesn't really exist here in Okinawa or on the internet for that matter). This type of environment (not just for US Mil/Okinawan Relationship questions but ALL questions/communication on my channel) is very important to me.

• What is your favorite Okinawan or Japanese dish to eat?

I love squid. My favorite preparation is either fried or dried. I just can't get enough of it.

• What is your favorite place to eat in Okinawa?

My favorite place to eat in Okinawa would have to be Double Decker. It's this great little pub style restaurant in Mihama, tucked away in the back corner of the Sega building. It's got a great atmosphere and the food has consistently been great throughout the years.
Double Decker (1) Double Decker (Lunch!) - OkiNinjaKitty blog

• Do you cook Okinawa/Japanese dishes often? What is your favorite to cook?

I often find myself cooking Okinawa and Japanese style dishes. Although you don't have to eat local to live here I find that it is not only enjoyable but it is easier on the wallet as well. My favorite to com is goya chanpuru. It's easy, quick, affordable and my husband and I love it!
Recipe: Goya Chanpuru

• What are your favorite kinds of events to attend?

My favorite events to attend are the ones that you won't find in a guide book. You'd be amazed at how different events are that don't focus on drawing in tourists or impressing foreigners. The one event that sticks out in my mind are the goat fights. it was a small festival being held up in the mountains which turned out to be the most welcoming and enjoyable experience I had all year.

• What kinds of things do you do for fun? Beside making videos for your channel?

I like to draw and read but mostly only in the peak summer months when it's too hot to do too much physical activity. The rest of the time I like to be doing something outdoors. I enjoy gardening and going for walks.

• I know some people complain about getting bored on island. How do you keep it interesting?

There are quite a lot of people here on Okinawa who complain about getting bored and it honestly blows my noggin'! I've been here nearing a decade and there are still lists of things I haven't seen so long that I can barely keep track. It's funny, I was talking to a friend of mine who has been here for over 40 years and he feels the same way. That being said when I see people on Twitter, Tumblr or Facebook complaining about how they have been here 3 weeks and already "seen it all" there is a little part of me screaming inside going "There is more to Okinawa than Pineapple Park"!
We've kept things interesting in a few different ways over the years. At first we broke down what we wanted to find into sections. One of us would say "let's find castles" and we would do on looking for castles. At first it was the more obvious UNESCO sites, then the popular castle sites and finally the not so popular sites (did you know there are actually hundreds here on Okinawa). Then it was parks, then it was beaches, then it was museums (there are tons of museums around Okinawa, many of them are free), dams and so on. Eventually we started to notice things on our way to find these places. A sign for a monument here, a sign that we couldn't read but it looked super interesting there. . . so we changed out game plan. We started planning drives (and sometimes walks) with roads but no intended destinations. See something, double back and explore! This is how we have found probably about 90% of the awesome things that we have seen here on Okinawa.

• How do you feel about living in a largely military community?

Okinawa is not what I would describe as a "largely military community". Describing the collective community of Okinawa as such suggests (at least in my opinion) that most people's lives are driven by the military in some way or you're bumping elbows with military members and their families no matter where you go. Neither of these are the case.

• Are you involved and comfortable with the military community?

No I am not involved with the military community. I would not say that I am uncomfortable with the military community as a whole but I would be lying if I said that I was never made uncomfortable by members of the military community based on the fact that I was an expat. It's an unfortunate truth but one you should know regardless if you're thinking about living here as an expat.

• If not, are you involved and comfortable with the Okinawan Community?

I am definitely involved with the Okinawa community as well as the expat community here and throughout Japan. I am 100% comfortable with the Okinawan community.

• Could you see yourself living there permanently?

Yes

• What would you change to make it a more enjoyable and/or comfortable experience?

I honestly can't think of anything that I could have changed to make life here more enjoyable/comfortable. It would have been great to have more information about Okinawa from the start so there was not so much guess work. Of course I can't go back in time to fix that but I am trying through my channel, blog and Facebook page to create what it is I wish I had when I first got here.

You can find Kathryn:
YouTube
FaceBook
Blog

My Favorites: 

Hotto Motto- I love Hotto Motto! Love! Love! Love!
Daiso: Everything you need, No, Seriously

This video is my favorite because it's very close to my old house, I used to ride my bike along this way almost every week, sometimes several times a week. 

Who doesn't love awesome vending machines?

I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed putting it together. If you have any questions for Kathryn, head on over to the OkiNinjaKitty Facebook page, and tell her you found here here!